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Odessa ladies letter writing tips. Part 2. Structure



The previous article provided you with the necessary tips on writing letters to Odessa ladies, told you about the topics to mention there and the ways to be interesting and unique for them but what about the structure? It doesn’t matter whether you write a business or a dating letter – it should have the right structure. Let’s dwell on this topic.

First comes the introduction. Introduction of a dating letter should contain the information capturing the attention of your Odessa dating – just imagine you write a slogan to some company or a headline to an article. The first few words will determine your woman’s attitude to your letter. The best way is to give her some compliments regarding the information she has provided in her profile or application. Note: your letter shouldn’t be too long, the best size is 1-1.5 pages. It’s quite evident that nobody will be happy to read 8 pages of a letter from an alien. But at the same time don’t write a short come-off, the keyword here is “interesting”. Try to avoid some beaten beginnings like “Hi, I’m George and I like you”. You’d better give some specific details about yourself: your age, career, children, hobbies and all that jazz.

It’s important to make an impression of a serious guy. Any girl (whether you are dating Odessa singles or Chinese ones) needs to know you are a serious minded person that is looking for a partner who is an individual but not a housekeeper. That’s why they recommend to write some words about it in your introduction.

After providing some information about you ask her questions. This issue gives your correspondence loads of advantages. First, you show you are interested in her personality. Second, you help her to structure her reply providing a so called plan points. Third, you will get the reply you want – with the answers to the questions you have.

Any Odessa dating agency has a section with tips on their website. So all of them “sing in unison” that it’s very important to find the common ground with a girl in the first letter. For that reason they recommend you to monitor her interests and make a line analyzing the things you have in common. Note: don’t give her information on your past relationships and marriages. Add to that blacklist topics of religion and politics. They should definitely be discussed but not in the first letter.

As for letter conclusion, they say it’s very “healthy” to be friendly at the end of the letter. Just create a pleasant atmosphere, share your wishes and say you’re waiting for her reply. It may seem quite understandable to many but pay your attention once again: write in literate English, check your spelling and grammar (in case you’re not from an English speaking country), and forget about Internet brief words and slang. It’s a common feature today to speak Internet abbreviation language. But you are writing your first letter, not even chatting, do your best to look serious. By the way, Odessa girls will really appreciate if you order a translation of a letter in Russian. Just imagine, if she doesn’t know English she will reply only to those who she liked in a photo while a Russian version of a letter will please her and she will even value your efforts to simplify your correspondence.

As for the photos. Keep sending her 2-3 photos every time you write a letter. That way, she will know you better. Avoid selecting photos where you are wearing sunglasses, sit in a bar drinking with your friends or black-and-white images. Find a photo that depicts your appearance best of all.

And finally, don’t get disappointed if she doesn’t answer you. That means it’s not your variant, look for another girl – there are thousands of women willing to build a happy family with you.


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